Thursday, June 25, 2009
King Tut (and Extended Family) Visit de Young Museum
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Ask Emma
Question: I recommended a friend of mine who is a designer and an interior decorator to my boss’s wife. He did a great job on their new house. Everybody thinks so, but my boss’s wife. Every time she sees me, she complains and complains about everything he did. The curtains are wrong, the paint is wrong, the floors are wrong, you name it. I believe she expects me to promise that my friend would come and redo the whole thing free of charge for her, but I don’t feel it would be fair. He really did a great job, and I would trade places with her in a second. Too bad I can’t afford what she can.
Answer: You should not take it personally. If your friend did his job according to the customers’ specifications, and consulted with them along the way, he is under no obligation to redo the job. You are even less responsible for that. Your boss’s wife hired the guy because she wanted to, not because you recommended him. She also had an opportunity to change whatever he proposed in the process of decorating her home. If she is not satisfied now, when the job is finished, she still has to deal with the designer, not with you. Let her know that you are not planning to talk to him about it and change the subject every time she starts complaining. Another piece of advice: don't envy her.
Answer: You should not take it personally. If your friend did his job according to the customers’ specifications, and consulted with them along the way, he is under no obligation to redo the job. You are even less responsible for that. Your boss’s wife hired the guy because she wanted to, not because you recommended him. She also had an opportunity to change whatever he proposed in the process of decorating her home. If she is not satisfied now, when the job is finished, she still has to deal with the designer, not with you. Let her know that you are not planning to talk to him about it and change the subject every time she starts complaining. Another piece of advice: don't envy her.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Delightfully Wicked: Cheri

In Colette’s time, romance novels were actually good lit. Or, it was just that 50 novels written by her during her long and adventurous lifetime were. Her third husband called her “a woman of genius,” and her many lovers often remained her lifelong friends. The new Miramax film, Cheri, is based on Colette’s novel of the same name. Second famous after Gigi, the story rotates around a love affair between a retired courtesan, Lea, played by Michelle Pfeiffer, and a young man, who she nicknamed Cheri (Rupert Friend). A son of her former colleague, Charlotte Peloux (absolutely delightful Kathy Bates), Cheri knows Lea since childhood and has a great affinity for her impeccable style, her strong character, and her pearls, which he covets, being ever so slightly effeminate in his leisurely ways. The affair unfolds in Belle Epoque Paris and on the sun-lit shores of Normandy, until Cheri’s ubiquitous mother decides it’s time for her to indulge in a grandmotherly role. Directed by Stephen Frears (“The Queen”) the film examines all shades of love and all kinds of suffering induced by it, unfolding in spectacular gardens, as if painted by Monet, and grand hotels and mansions furnished in Art Nouveau top to bottom. The film opens on June 16 in select theatres. Images: 1. Michelle Pfeiffer as Léa de Lonval, Rupert Friend as Chéri. Photo credit: Bruno Calvo. 2. Colette during her dancing career in a publicity still. Visit www.cheri-movie.com
Good Things Come in Small Packages, and so does Oola
The Pullman-style dining room with high-back beige plush banquettes and dark wood tables along a brick wall on one side, and a bar, lighted in orange neon on the other, invites romantic dates and youthful groups of friends to indulge in Chef Ola’s cuisine, which he calls “San Franciscan.” Hanging nylon panels of brown and purple hues, white orchid pots, and red-glass candleholders with flickering votives soften an industrial feel of the two-story high ceiling with oversized bare light bulbs on long black cords. Oil paintings derived from vintage snapshots by Manny Fabregas adorn the walls. Along with an intimate party garret upstairs, the restaurant seats 45. The value priced summer menu uses local producers, like Wine Forest Mushrooms, Dirty Girl Produce, Knoll Farms, Cow Girl Creamery, Star Route Farms, Snyders Honey and Swanton Berry Farm. An international selection of wines includes dry and refreshing Saint Hilare brut (France) that pairs nicely with those mean half-shells, served with notable mignonette; Kim Crawford pinot noir (New Zealand) a great ribs companion, and Castello Meleto classical Chianti from Tuscany, good for just about anything, but especially enjoyable with a side of parmesan and truffle oil fries. A new addition to the summer menu, some amazingly airy and stiff soufflés are a Monday specialty, so the hardest day of the week now becomes softer for Oola fans. A newly introduced cocktail menu focuses on some of San Francisco’s oldest classic cocktails such as the Gibson, Whiskey Crusta and Pisco Punch, and the full bar is open for a happy hour Monday through Friday from 5:00 to 7:00 PM with drink specials and attractively priced hors d’ oeuvres. Oola is open nightly for dinner, Tuesday through Saturday from 6:00 PM to 1:00 AM and on Sunday and Monday from 6:00 PM to midnight, and is located at 860 Folsom Street, SF. For reservations call 415- 995-2061, for more information visit www.oola-sf.com. Photography by Yuri Krasov. 1. Dining room at Oola. 2. Chef’s famous ceviche. 3. With Chef Ola Fendert.
Lords of the Samurai at Asian Art Opens with Descendant Present


A nine-planet crest of a noble samurai family can be seen everywhere in the Asian Art Museum in San Francisco these days. A grandiose and spectacular show “Lords of the Samurai” jointly organized with the Eisei-Bunko Hosokawa Collection, Tokyo, opened last week honored by the presence of Hosokawa Morihiro, a former Prime-Minister of Japan, Chairman of the Eisei-Bunko Museum, and a descendant of a daimyo [big name] family of the highest-rank samurai. “My family lineage goes back uninterrupted for seven hundred years,” he said in his speech at the opening of the exhibition, “The first eight generations were deputy lords, and became daimyo – feudal lords and military generals.” Hosokawa family portraits, scrolls with poems and paintings, samurai armors, swards, formal attire, tea wear and household items presented at the show, were selected to emphasize the artistic pursuits of the lords. Skilled warriors, the samurai were always prepared to die on a battlefield, and valued every fleeting moment of life with its many gifts offered by art and culture. They adorned their weapons with elaborate designs, collected decorative art objects, learned music, calligraphy and the Way of Tea, and performed plays and dances during their gatherings. In the exhibition, among the 166 various objects, there are simple bamboo tea utensils, which sometimes served as rewards for fearless warriors. Such objects were valued for their natural beauty, perceived through contemplation and discussion during tea ceremonies among high rank samurai. Ceramic tea bowls and vases, created by Hosakawa Morihiro, are also presented in the show, taking their place among the family art treasures, produced and collected by his ancestors. The show was curated by Yoko Woodson, Curator of Japanese Art or the Asian Art Museum. Lords of the Samurai runs through September 20 at 200 Larkin Street, SF. Call 415-581-3500 or visit www.asianart.org. Images: 1. Tosei Gusoku-type armor. Japan, Edo period, 19th century. 2. Sake bottle and food box set in the shape of an eggplant. Japan, Edo period, 17th century.
Friday, June 12, 2009
Virginia is for Lovers, Richmond is for Love. Part 3
Agecroft Hall, overlooking the James River, is a real Tudor estate built in Lancashire, England in the late 15th century and transported “over the pond” by a clever Richmonder in 1926 – family portraits and all. Surrounded by 23 acres of formal gardens and landscaped grounds, the museum offers guided tours during which one can learn the real meaning of words “chairman of the board” and “cupboard” among other curious facts from the lives of past generations. There is also Maymont House Museum, a Gilded Age estate of railroad magnate James Dooley and his wife Sallie, who inhabited it in 1893-1925. Preserved in its entirety, with furnishings, dishes, clothes, and household items, this historic landmark offers an unprecedented view into Victorian lifestyle, and fascinating guided tours. Of course, no visit to Richmond would be complete without a visit to Edgar Allan Poe Museum, located in the Old Stone House – the oldest building in Richmond. Not only artifacts and memorabilia (Poe’s childhood bed, and a trunk, left after his death – his only possession at the time) but the very air of the house and the pensive garden behind it seemingly carry the invisible presence of the beloved author of Raven, the inventor of detective genre, the master of horror… A never smiling museum curator, Chris Semtner, has a magic power to evoke the spirit of the dark genius during his solemn yet informative tours, and implements multiple programs and events in celebration of Poe’s bicentennial through the end of this year. More information at: www.visitrichmondva.com, www.vmfa.museum, www.virginiaarchitecture.org, www.agecrofthall.org, www.maymont.org, www.poemuseum.org, www.poe200th.com.
Photography by Yuri Krasov. 1. Russian collection at VMFA. 2. Dogwood blossom, window at Virginia Center for Architecture. 3. A little angel in the Center garden. 4. Agecroft Estate. 5. A terrace table at Maymont. 6. Poe memorial. 7. Poe museum courtyard. 8. At Poe museum with Curator Chris Semtner and Mrs. Richmond Erin Bagnell.
Virginia is for Lovers, Richmond is for Love. Part 2
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Virginia is for Lovers, Richmond is for Love. Part 1
Monday, June 8, 2009
Bolshoi Ballet Brings Dreamy La Bayadere to Cal Performances
Visitors from Moscow might complain about the ongoing long term renovation of the Bolshoi Theatre all they want, but lucky SF Bay Area residents had to look no farther than Berkeley to catch the famous grand Russian troupe in La Bayadere. One of the timeless gems of Minkus/Petipa genius collaboration, brought in by Cal Peformances, packed a full house for each show last weekend. On Saturday evening, Svetlana Zakharova’s hands and feet movements seemed beyond human plasticity in the role of Nikiya; Ekaterina Krysanova (Gamzatti) charmed the audience with her endless fouette, and Nikolay Tsiskaridze (Solor) with his weightless grand jete. A small tempest of admiration was created by lightning-like moves of Ivan Vasiliev in the role of Golden Idol. It was hard to fathom how a spectacularly built and rather muscular dancer could visibly hang in the air at the apex of his dazzling jumps. Another tornado of applause was stirred by the high-voltage performance of unstoppable Anna Antropova in the Dance with a Drum. To crown it all, in the all-the-way-through anticipated classic finale, the 32 unearthly apparitions in gauzy white appeared one by one from the abyss of time and space, and crossed the stage in their breathtakingly synchronized serpentine Dance of the Shades. The glorious Russian company once again won the hearts of the Bay Area balletomanes, and left them waiting for another tour, perhaps more probable while the home of the troupe is going through the reconstruction. To find out about Cal Performances programs, and to order tickets or subscription, call 510-642-9988 or visit calperformances.org.
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Feeling Regal at Regale Winery
Photography by Yuri Krasov.
Ask Emma
Question: I am a successful businesswoman. My work is my life, I have good friends, and I am perfectly fine being single. Actually, I am divorced, so I know “what I am missing on.” I don’t know why all my friends are trying to set me up with their brothers, cousins and uncles. Most of the time they turn out to be regular losers. After each failed attempt to start dating again, I feel nothing but frustration, and not because the man was not what I expected, but because I wasted a precious free evening (on someone totally unworthy). Some people think I am a snob and “full of myself,” but this is not true. I am who I am, and it is not my fault that I am better than most men I meet, and I refuse to settle for just anybody. What should I do to persuade my well-meaning friends and coworkers that I am not pretending to be happy as it is, but am enjoying my independence and financial freedom?
Answer: Before you can make everyone around you believe you are happy as it is, try to figure out what is the key word in your complain, “set up” or “losers?” Should one of your potential dates be a good-looking successful businessman, would you turn him down? Maybe, your friends get this vibe from you that you are primed for dating, and are trying to help (their relatives as well as you). You must be a good catch if they continue trying despite your rejection of their candidates. When you get really tired of their attempts to set you up, stop accepting invitations to check out another “loser.” As long as you are coming to see who’s out there this time, your friends will continue to set you up.
Answer: Before you can make everyone around you believe you are happy as it is, try to figure out what is the key word in your complain, “set up” or “losers?” Should one of your potential dates be a good-looking successful businessman, would you turn him down? Maybe, your friends get this vibe from you that you are primed for dating, and are trying to help (their relatives as well as you). You must be a good catch if they continue trying despite your rejection of their candidates. When you get really tired of their attempts to set you up, stop accepting invitations to check out another “loser.” As long as you are coming to see who’s out there this time, your friends will continue to set you up.
Monday, June 1, 2009
Mark Morris Dance Group in Magical Sequences of L’Allegro Stuns Cal Performances
Always on the move, moving as one, following every music note with the boldest or the slightest movements of their perfectly trained bodies, 24 Morris’s dancers sweep across the stage leaf-like in his timeless masterpiece, L’Allegro, il Penseroso ed il Moderato. Set to Handel’s music, the multimedia Baroque piece includes John Milton’s poetry, rearranged by the composer’s librettist Charles Jennens, and is performed in perfect harmony in Zellerbach Hall by Philharmonia Baroque Orchestra (Jane Glover, conductor) and Cal’s own Chamber Chorus and soloists. Since its premiere more than 20 years ago, L’Allegro is considered the most significant achievement not only of the Group, but also of modern dance in general. Morris is notorious for selecting his dancers based on their “musicality” and their ability “to do the job” as part of the group, and for maintaining the amazing level of their technical skill through vigorous daily routines starting with the morning ballet classes. He boasts an impressive number of talented performers who have been with the group since its inception or its very early stages. Recognizable by their devout fans, Morris’s dancers might seem like regular human beings, with their different body types, hairstyles, and individual features, but at the end of an evening-long performance of highly demanding intricate moves that awash a stage with an unstoppable speed and grace of an ocean wave, it’s obvious that we witness a historical event and experience a moment of higher truth… For information on Cal Performances programs and to reserve tickets call 510-642-9988 or visit www.calperformances.org. Image by Ken Friedman.